Friday, June 22, 2007

Late Day Early Night

THIS IS LATE FOR ME. 11:26pm as I write. Because I foolishly lay down for "five minutes" haha! That turned into much more like five hours... Because the solstice was yesterday it remained light till something like ten thirty p.m. (surely not literally that long? But it felt like it. I know it can stay light till about ten because I remember staying out that late as a child.) ... Brains still not in gear... they want me to take hep C tests again ... I don't think I've got that anyway ... on a lighter note I've found these French bread rolls called briochettes. You get about eight for £1 and they're really yellow because they're full of sugar and egg, which makes them soft like bread should bee (crusty bread~ ukk!). See what happens when I force self to write yet with nothing to say. I'm going back to lalaland ... nightnight ...

... aa! But those bread rolls= the business!

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Here's some words of wisdom purloined from Sit With Me Awhile ...

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in
front of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large
and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the
jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas
between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was
full.

They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the
jar was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space
between the sand. The students laughed.

"Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
important things--your family, your children, your health, your friends
and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
remained, your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house
and your car.

The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand
into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
important to you.

"Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play
with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your
spouse out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to cl ean
the house and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things
that really matter.
Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
represented. The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked.

It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem,
there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."

19 comments:

  1. "Sit with me awhile" this is the blog I found when logging out of google just now:

    http://slgb65.blogspot.com/

    it is good

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  2. come on! I posted a long pears of wisdom thang below and still it's yet to appear .... com ON

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  3. I loved that gled. Great post! (And I agree that the crusty stuff's gotta' go)

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  4. Hi Gled. Pleased you liked our blog. There's no special reason it's set out that way other than I like it too. I don't follow my stats. If people want to visit, stay a while, comment etc that's good, if not that's up to them. Feel free to pop by any time you like x x

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  5. I have seen that before, but it never fails to move me.

    I like soft bread too!

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  6. Hi Gledwood

    Hows it going today? Have you decided whether to try and kick the drugs yet? I look forward to your next post.

    ttfn sadgirl x

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  7. What a great find, a real pearl of wisdom. I wish I liked briochettes they look so tempting but they are too sweet for my tooth, I prefer crusty and savoury........with poppy or sesame seeds on top :)

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  8. HAHA!
    i soooooooooooooo know what a 5 minute nap means! espesh in ,my school days. LOL. I'd come back from school, lay down for a sec-ya know, it was hard- but that sec turned out to be 2 hours... & guess why i was going to bed at 12 am & waking up at 6.30 am? cuz of those goddamn 5 minute naps. LOL!

    "It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem,
    there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."

    Not only that, but there is also room to change for a better life! At least i hope so!

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  9. Hey, thanks for the comment you left on my blog a little while back. I'm finding your blog real interesting too. I like the fact you write so honestly about stuff. I'm battling with severe epilepsy right now, and have to take tons of drugs for that, which leave me in a spaced out state... nothing like your drugs obviously, but still it's good to read about your stuff. Like the pearl of wisdom you included there too. Anyway, cheers for the read. Becky

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  10. Debs: I'm glad you agree. Soft bread rolls ("baps") = proper, crusty = vulgar (& they actually paint on especially egg white/ (or nowadays probably Glaxxo chemicals) to make it go horribly crusty... how terrible ..!

    Sadgirl: That's the point; I cannot say any definite "when" because all my drug-addicted life I've been making such promises. Sorry to sound so limp about it, but that's as specific as I can be. I'm just not willing to make anything resembling any kind of promise because of what happened before. When it happens it happens and that is all I can say. Sorry I cannot be any more precise than that ...

    Audrey: Glad someone else knows briochettes. They're fantastic aren't they. I wish I had not eaten the first one with garlicky hummous(!) tho and had some premium bramble conserve or double cream and something nice with which to Devonshire-cream-tea it up a bit ...

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  11. Akelamalu: Good!

    Edyta: of course there's always room to change to a better life no matter what situation you're in. That's what life means. Otherwise ~ if you can't change ~ you're not living, you're already dead.

    :

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  12. ooer that's me buggered up that comment. it was not meant to all come out in bold. ho~hum...

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  13. Rebekah Fox: Glad my (adopted) pearls clang bells of familiarity, so to speak. As I said I got it from a blog called Sit With Me Awhile which I'd never even come across till tomorrow evening ...

    Shaz: Likewise. Thanks for the lovely message

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  14. Shaz: I recently got over 10,000 hits as well ... no the only reason I asked about stats was because my counters don't seem to measure how much time anyone's spent on my blog unless they do more than one "page view" otherwise it counts their visit as 0 mins 00 seconds ... I thought that might be the reason for your unusual format ... why did you choose to format it like that then??

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  15. Good find, Gledwood. Thanks for sharing. It was very clever and the message wise. Hope you've got all your golfballs! :)

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  16. Never had briochettes or brioche (spelling?). I just make my own bread.

    I don't understand why it stays light so long there, solstice or not. I'm at the 45th parallel and it stays light till about 9:30 PM. Now I have to figure this one out.

    grrrrrrrr

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  17. Forgot to say how much I like that mayonnaise jar story. Until the coffee/friends ending which was weak. The rest was outstanding and I'm saving it.

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  18. Ah, you see? We writers (and you, like me, are a writer by nature, I can tell) must force ourselves to practice our craft each day even when we "have nothing to say." I liked the story and I've had that kind of bread before -- DELICIOUS.

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  19. BTW, I wrote a little something about my own issues with drug abuse. I'm just starting to really face matters and come to terms. Stop by the blog and give it a read if you get the chance. I would like that.

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